ख़ुशी और गम

वक्त ही बता सकता है की ख़ुशी और गम में  फर्क क्या है

बेवक्त की ख़ुशी और हर वक्त का गम, यहाँ है

यूँ तो लाखो मन्नते की थी हमने ख़ुशी पाने के लिए

बाद में जाना ख़ुशी मिलने का मतलब ही, गम यहाँ है.

शब्दच्छल

तुझ्या विरहाने व्याकूळ, हि वेळ संपत का नाही ..
श्वास संपलेत पण तुझी भेट होत का नाही ...

जवळ असतांना कधी तुझी किंमत केली नाही ..
तुझ्या प्रेमाचे मोल किती अनमोल, हे जाणून घेतले नाही ..
आज वेळ आहे पण तू नाही, हि जाणीवच भयानक आहे ..
उद्यातरी तू भेटणार , या आशेवरच मी जिवंत आहे ..

प्रेम माझे वेगळे, त्याची तऱ्हा हि न्यारी ..
बोललो जरी नसेन, तरी सदैव उल्लेख तुझा ओठावरी..
कितीही दूर जरी गेलो मी तुला सोडून,
फक्त तू आणि फक्त तूच आहे माझ्या विचारी ....

मी कधीच हरणार नाही ...

माझी प्रिया ही माझी असावी,
भले ती मुक्त स्वच्छंद फिरावी,
कैद मजकडे तिची सावली असावी,
विरहाची कधी भीती नसावी

बंध नको मला तिची साथ असावी,
तीज सोबतच जगण्याची आस असावी,
असने तिचे चैतन्य देई मजला,
नसली तरी एकटे पणाची जान नसावी..

जीवन माझे बहुमूल्य,
ही ठेव आहे कैक जनांची,
प्रिये तू मला सोडले तरी,
गरज आहे मला जगण्याची..

तुझा विरह असह्य असला तरी,
मी आज रडणार नाही,
प्रीती हि जपेन सर्वदा..
मात्र जीवनात मी कधीच हरणार नाही ...
मात्र जीवनात मी कधीच हरणार नाही ...

My 10 Observation in Pune while riding a bike

I have completed 1 year in Pune and I brought my bike in September 10, so almost 10+ month of driving experience. It was very challenging to drive on Pune roads, especially when you are driving a bike first time on your life directly on Pune roads.
With all that experience I observed 10 important things that I am sharing with you; I hope you don’t mind reading ?

1)    You don’t need to have any qualification / document to ride the bike on roads until the cop catch you, but when cop catches you there is no document that will save you from paying the fine (bribe).
2)    For any working signal if there are traffic cops at signal, then don’t bother about signal watch what cops are signaling, there action overrides any other rule.
3)    70% times the cops at signal are busy on cell and the percentage is more for the cops who are young and specially ladies.
4)    Keep safe distance in front as well back, because there are always 2 way risks being hit.
5)    At any time if you see the road getting forked ahead and you are behind a bike / car slow down yourself. They will take any road without indicator.
6)    If lady driver's indicators are on, don’t assume that she will turn on that side; she might forget to off the indicator on previous turn, so she might take another turn.
7)    On any given signal if you are in the first line, then start your bike before 10 seconds and move on the road if you stop till green, then everyone will buzz horn and will try to cross you from both sides.
8)    If bike riders are doing a overtake to you, then be aware that at any time they will be in front of you without any indication and if you at all hit them then you are gone, you need to listen all scrap things.
9)    If you wait at any chowk where there is no signal, for others to pass first then you will be at that chowk forever
10)    If there is narrow gap between cars / buses where it is hard for a person to walk, I am sure lady driver will surely pas through it.

IMP Note: These are purely my observation and not directly or indirectly pointing to any person / gender / city, if it happened to be like that, then that will be a purely coincidence.

To be or not to be ....

The life was never be a simple for me but I never complained about it and always found the way to go ahead ... and that is how I am here on my journey. I never cared for what I lost but I always worried about what I need .. I tried my best to achieve it. 

My life was always playing different rounds with me, where after finishing of a one problem, I have the next challenge to meet .. I am tired of doing that .. but now accepted it as a part of life that I need to live here. It was a magic that kept me alive and now I want to live and enjoy it to fullest. I want to forget everything except that "Life is beautiful, and I should live it fullest". We get this life once lets make it remarkable with our presence .. I am not talking about mere physical presence but the presence that will be here even after your absence ..

"To be or not to be" might be just a question to Shakespeare, but for me it was the point of life and death ... I am far away from the fear of death .. but I am so close to the charm of life ... I want to live because I want to take it to the point where I want to dissolve myself into the beauty in my surrounding. 

निर्लज्ज जगणे

स्वतासाठी जगले ते काय जगले .. समाजासाठीही  चला काही करू
हेच ध्येय आणि उद्दिष्ट मना स्मरूनी,  जीवनाची हि वाट चालू
अनेक उदाहरणे होती समोरी... आदर्श हि नव्हते थोडके..
आम्हीही मग उचलले पाउल .. म्हटले "दिखायेंगे ये भी करके"

अन्यायाला वाचा फोडण्यासाठी आता आम्हीही लढवय्ये तयार होतो
निर्भयता आणि नीती सारखी तत्वे आता आम्हीही जगणार होतो
रणशिंग फुंकले जेव्हा विचारांचे .... मनात दुसरे काहीही नव्हते ...
एकेक श्वास यास वाहू ... हेच मनाशी बिंबवले होते

उद्देश आणि कर्तुत्वाची पूर्ण जान आम्हाला होती
पण ना जाणो कुठेतरी काही माशी शिंकली होती
जगाला प्रकाश देणारा दिव्याला स्वताखालच्या अंधाराची जान नव्हती
जगा दिपविले उजेडाने .. पण त्याची खरी गरज त्याच्या घरालाच होती

आम्हीही असेच पामर, जगात क्रांतीचा डंका पिटतो
घरात मात्र रोज आमच्याच ... अन्यायाचा भडका उठतो
मलाच आज माझ्या अकर्तुत्वाची लाज वाटत आहे
तरीही मी मान खाली घालून अजूनही निर्लज्जपणे जगत आहे
तरीही मी मान खाली घालून अजूनही निर्लज्जपणे जगत आहे

From being a human to a successful person

We need to posses few traits for being a human and few more to be able to successful in life, I am trying my best to learn and act on them, what about you?

Never expect, you will get more

How to tackle people in life is a key. Whoever we meet in life, in office, in bus, train, or anywhere, our behavior should always cooperative and helping. We should not worry if those people will help us in future or not.

Always have at least one "Share drive"

We have lot of happiness and problems in life and we always need someone whom with we can share the things or get help to take decision. But we must need at least one person with whom we can share 100%, it doesn’t matter if he/she is parent, sibling, friend or partner or anyone. If we keep things to ourselves then we become exhausted, frustrated and anti-social. So open your mind and start to share you will never feel alone

Don't let your ego to take on you

Ego hurts more to us than others. Ego is speed breaker in our journey which keeps stopping us from reaching our goal. So give less importance to your Ego, if you do that you are one step ahead towards your goal. We should learn to dominate our ego.

Do something only if you believe it from heart

We should not do something which we don’t believe from heart. We can do our best only when we do it from heart. If we don’t believe something, then we will never able to dedicate ourselves for getting it done.

Don’t be common, be different

Always leave your footprints wherever you go. Always practice different way which a common person wouldn't even think. Being common it might possible that you will not be forgotten, but being different, you are assured to be remembered for long. You can bring revolutions only when you do differently. I am sure you all know the famous quote of Shiv Khera, "Winners don't do different things, they do things differently".