क्षमा परमो धर्म

वात आज खूप आनंदात होती, कारणच असे होते; तिला तिचे नवीन घर मिळणार होते..जसे प्रत्येक मुलीचे स्वप्न तसेच तिचे होते. आणि शेवटी तिच्या आई ने तिला दिव्याच्या स्वाधीन केले. घर छोटे होते, त्यातच आजूबाजूला खूप सारे तेल. २ दिवसानंतर वात दिव्याला म्हटली मला घुसमटते  आहे इथे. तू तर शहाना तसाच राहशील मी तर इथे जळते आहे. एकीकडे आग आणि एकीकडे तेल किती रे त्रास होतो?. दिव्या ने खूप समजवले पण वातिने नाही ऐकले. तिने घर सोडण्याचाया विचार पक्का केला. तेला ने आणि अंधारा ने ही पुष्कळ समजवले पण वात रात्री पळाली. दिवा खूप रडला. वात पेटलेली होती, ती सैरवैरा उडाया लागली. आज ती स्वतन्त्र्य होती.. अरे हे काय ती जाळायला लागली तेला अभावी, चुकुन एका घराला आग लागली तिच्याकडून, तिला आपली चुक कळली ती परत घरी परतली. सर्व ठीक झाले. सर्वांना वाटले दिव्या ने माफ केले वातीला.

खूप दिवस झाले, दिव्याच्या मनातून सूड भावना जात नव्हती. त्याला वातीचा आनंद जणू नकोसा झला होता. त्याने मनात निश्चय केला की वातीला धडा शिकवायचा... वातीवर सूड उगवायचा. तेलाशी संगणमत करून त्याने स्वताला एक बारीक खडडा केला, आणि सारे तेल आनंदाने वाहून गेले. ... वात जाळायला लागली.. तेलाशिवाय ती कासावीस होऊ लागली ... तिचा श्वास जणू थांबला होता.. ती पुर्नच जळाली असती .. पण वारा मदतीला धावून आला.... त्याने लगेच तिला एका दुसर्‍या दिव्यात टाकले.... आणि वात वाचली. तेवढ्यात कुठून तरी आवाज आला "दिवा फुटलेला दिसतो.. आता काही कामाचा नाही तो, फेक त्याला" ... दिवा घाबरला परंतु आता खूप उशीर झला होता.. वातीला केले होते माफ त्याने परंतू त्याला माफी नव्हती आज. वातीला ही रडू फुटले आठवले तिला दिव्याची ती साथ ... परंतू आता तिला तिचे आयुष्य नव्याने सुरू करायचे होते एका नव्या दिव्यसोबत.... वार्‍या ने अके अस्रु गालला .. परंतु त्याला ही बरेच काम होते त्यामुळे ते दुख विसरून तो पुन्हा कामाला लागला. आणि शेवटी दिव्याला फेकण्यात आले अशा ठिकाणी जिथे फक्त अंधार होता...

तेल ही थोडे नाराज होते.. शेवटी दिव्याच्या नाशास तोही कारणीभूत होता. परंतू त्याला एक जीवनाचे सत्य समजले होते.. आणि त्याने ठरवले.. ते सत्य सार्‍या जगाला सांगायचे ....  "सूड जीवघेणा असतो दुसर्यांनाही आणि स्वतालाहि, मात्र क्षमा परमो धर्म!!!"

Perspective ....

Today morning a kid (around age 10) asked me, "How come your bag is too light?, with your age you should carry more than me". I have then seen his bag and found its fully loaded like a Military Man. Its more than the size he can take. I got confused what to answer and then being on safer side, I told him that "Hey with the addition in age and experience, the weight of books goes to Brain..that’s why I am carrying little". With my answer he smiled and said.."So the tensions and problems too...right?"

I have no words ... :(

मृगजळ

वाळवंटातच मृगजळ मिळत असत, मात्र त्याला सत्य समजायच नसत,
मृगजळापरी तुला सत्य समजण्याची चुक मी का केली ......
हाताच्या मुठीत रेतिला कधीच धरायच नसत ........

Attitude – a mystery

Life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it!!!

What can I say about Attitude, the longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. It is more important than facts to me. What I do, How I react, whom I like, where I feel good is all about the decision of our Attitude. It is more important than the past, the education, the money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It will make or break a heart... a company... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude.

Attitudes consist of three basic components i.e. emotional, informational, and behavioral out of which only behavioral can be directly observed. What emotions somebody has regarding us is tough to find also we cannot think of the beliefs in one about others.

Here are some examples of Attitude that I found ... fearless, curiosity, innocence, freedom, optimism, joy & sorrow, trust, inspiration, pride, passion, Loyalty, Helpfulness, Friendly, Courteous, Kindness, Obedient, Cheerfulness, Thrift, Courage, Reverent, Dramatic, Pessimistic & Guilt.

So I know which my Attitudes are and I am an incharge of it... Let me make my life better

A Lesson in Life

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.  If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again.
Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either.
You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

You and I ..............

Movie: De Dana Dan (2009)
Music Director:Pritam Chakraborty, Rdb
Director: Priyadarshan
Lyricist: Sayeed Qadri
Starring: Akshay Kumar, Katrina Kaif, Suneil Shetty, Paresh Rawal
Song Title: Rishte Naate
Release Date: November 27, 2009
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You and I
Will be together til the end of time
I promise I ll never let you go
Now that i know you love me
You and I
Will be together til the end of time
I promise I ll never let you go
Now that i know you love me
Chalun main tere peeche peeche
Baaki saare bandhan tod doon
Jo tere tak na jaye
Us raste ko chhod doon
Har khwab mera umeed meri
Main tujhe jod doon
Sab rishte naate haske tod doon
Bas tujhse dil ka rista jod doon
Jod doon
Sab rishte naate haske tod doon
Bas tujhse dil ka rista jod doon
You and I
Will be together til the end of time
I promise I ll never let you go
Now that i know you love me
You and I
Will be together til the end of time
I promise I ll never let you go
Now that i know you love me
Jud gai jud gai
Tujhse yeh meri zindagi
Maine to paayi tujh mein meri har khushi
Keh gai keh gai
Mujhse khud yeh baatein teri
Aksar Khayalon mein hoon tere
Mein kahin
Dekhun mein tujhe
Lamha lamha har pal
Apne seene mein rakhu
Har subhah tujhse milne ki chahat
Mein main jagu
Ek tu hi to hai hoton ki hasi
Chehre ka noor tu
Sab rishte naate haske tod doon
Bas tujhse dil ka rista jod doon jod doon
Sab rishte naate haske tod doon
Bas tujhse dil ka rista jod doon
Bas gai bas gai mujh mein
Ab hai yeh bas gai
Saanson se aaye har dum
Khusboo jo teri
Chaa gai chaa gai
Mujh par yeh jo hai chaa gai
Badli hai shayaad yeh to tere ishq ki
Yehi hai mere dil ki hasrat paihroh
Tujhse baatein main karu
Ho saari baatein tujh pe khatam
Aur tujhse ho shuru
Phir waqt bhi yeh ruk jaaye wahin ho
Jab bhi saath tu
Sab rishte naate haske tod doon
Bas tujhse dil ka rista jod doon jod doon
Sab rishte naate haske tod doon
You and I
Will be together til the end of time
I promise I ll never let you go
Now that i know you love me
You and I
Will be together til the end of time
I promise I ll never let you go
Now that i know you love me

Teesri Kasam

Yesterday I was quit bored as came late from office. It was almost 8.00. As I was bit hungry so as a quick option just taken Methi paratha and fried them. While eating food, I put some old video songs, one of which was  'Duniya Banane wale..'. I was so delighted with song that planned to watch the movie 'Teesri Kasam'. I had seent this movie earlier but nver understood the meaning of 'Teesri Kasam' in movie, so watched it from by heart. The songs are pretty good and touchy. I liked the movie very much and the happiest part of this is I understood the 'Teesri Kasam'.  So the three oaths (Kasam) taken by Raj kapoor are : 1. He will never carry the robbed things in the cart. 2. He will never carry the Bamboos in his cart. and the third and important oath was:

3. He will never take a Company Dancer as a passanger in his cart